Why Your Side Hustle Feels Like a Second Job

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By soivaSide Hustle
Why Your Side Hustle Feels Like a Second Job
Why Your Side Hustle Feels Like a Second Job

If you're trading hours for dollars, you're on a treadmill, not a path to wealth. It's a simple, direct trade: the moment you stop working, the money stops coming in. I grew up hearing the phrase, “You don’t work, you don’t eat,” and it perfectly captures this trap. This kind of time-based income is a dead end if your goal is real financial freedom. It's linear and can't build wealth quickly. Sure, there are exceptions, like a top NBA draft pick with a $12 million signing bonus, but if that’s you, you probably aren't reading this.

So, what’s the alternative to this unscalable grind, especially when you're already committed to starting a side hustle while working full time? The answer is to invest your time, not just trade it. You have to carve out time from your day to build things that can generate what is passive income or at least have the potential to.

People often ask me how they can possibly find the time. With a full-time job and the need to sleep, where do those extra hours come from? The reality is, you still need that job until your investments in passive income activities start paying off. If you work for eight hours and sleep for eight, you have another eight hours to play with. You have to dedicate as much of that block as possible to building your wealth-creation vehicle.

A few years ago, I was in that exact spot, juggling a demanding job with an Airbnb business. I’d pull long days at my office, sometimes up to twelve hours, and then spend my nights and weekends pouring every spare moment into my project. It wasn't glamorous. Socializing, dating, and relaxing were all on the back burner. But I understood that I was investing my time, not just spending it. That sacrifice eventually allowed me to leave my job behind, going from a 50-plus-hour workweek to just five. The time I invested years ago is still paying me back today, with interest.

Are You Getting Paid Once or Forever?

Beyond the time-for-money trap, there's another pitfall: getting paid only once for your work. Put in a week's work, get a week's pay. Complete a project, get a one-time fee. No matter how large the payment, it's still a single transaction. The test is simple: if you stop the work and the income stops, you’re getting paid once. A surgeon might make $400,000 a year, but that income vanishes the moment they stop showing up for surgery.

The harsh truth is that with a "paid once" model, the only way to significantly increase your wealth is to work more hours. We rarely think about our "Return on Time" (ROT), but when you build something that pays you over and over, that return becomes infinite. Every time someone buys an online course I created, the amount I earn per hour invested goes up. As long as that asset generates income, my dollars-per-hour keep climbing. You can’t make tens of thousands of dollars per hour when you're only paid once. This is the core of how to make passive income.

The better alternative is clear: get paid many times. The test here is the opposite: if you stop the income-producing activity but the money keeps coming in, you're being paid repeatedly. Years ago, I invested a lot of time and energy into creating a software tool. Once it was for sale and the process was automated, it started paying me over and over. It still pays me every single day, for work I did years ago. This is how a side hustle to full time transition becomes a reality.

This distinction is crucial because the temptation is always there to just find ways to make more money now. We think, "I need overtime," "I need a raise," or "I need a second job." These are logical answers, but they stem from the wrong question. Instead of asking, "How can I make more money?" the more powerful question is, "How can I make more recurring money?" Ask yourself how your one-time effort can pay you for years to come.

The Journey Matters More Than the Speed

To truly grasp the importance of your approach, think about getting from New York to Los Angeles. This journey represents your path to financial freedom.

You could decide to run across the country. It’s an incredible feat of endurance, but it relies 100% on your own effort. There's no leverage. This is like working a minimum-wage job. You might have big dreams, but your vehicle—your own two feet—will likely prevent you from ever reaching your destination.

A better vehicle is a bicycle. You have some leverage with gears, making you about five times faster than running. Many people on this path feel like they're making progress. They see the runners and feel superior. But they're still largely dependent on their own effort, and most will never finish the trip. This is the decent-paying job, the traditional career path.

Then there’s the car. You can drive across the country in about 40 hours. This is the 40-year plan most people follow: work a career, save a little from each paycheck, and hope to retire one day. It seems safe, but the vehicle is still 100% reliant on you. If you stop driving, the car goes nowhere.

The obvious answer is to fly. Why don't more people choose this route? For some, it's fear. For others, it's cost or simply because no one they know does it. Flying is like becoming a passivepreneur. You leverage not just tools, but the efforts of countless other people—pilots, flight attendants, maintenance crews. You can get to your destination in five hours, all while being productive or just relaxing. This is the goal for anyone looking into scalable side hustles.

But even that isn't the limit. A supersonic jet like the SR-71 Blackbird could make the trip in 64 minutes. And beyond that, we're on the verge of commercial suborbital flight, which could cross the country in minutes. The point is simple: there is always a faster vehicle. Your effort matters far less than the vehicle you choose for the journey. Finding the most profitable side businesses is about choosing the right vehicle, not just pedaling harder.

Finding Your Passive Income Vehicle (PIV)

Opportunities to build wealth can be broken down into two main categories: analog (brick-and-mortar) and digital (online). Analog opportunities are traditional—inventing a physical product, owning a car wash, or writing a physical book. This is where wealth has historically been built.

But today, the digital realm is where the biggest opportunities lie. Just look at the most valuable companies in the world—Apple, Microsoft, Alphabet, Amazon. They primarily make money by pushing ones and zeroes through screens. The amazing thing about these digital uncommon side hustles is that they are accessible to anyone with an internet connection. When you figure out how to make money online, you can truly live a laptop lifestyle.

Here are a few examples of these Passive Income Vehicles (PIVs):

  • Templates and Spreadsheets: You can create simple tools in Google Sheets and sell them. I once paid $49 for a spreadsheet that helped calculate profitability in one of my companies. It was just a Google Sheet, but it saved me countless hours and gave me insights I didn't have before. The creator has made over $472,000 from that one spreadsheet.
  • Digital Courses: Selling information is one of the best business models. There's no inventory, no shipping, and the customer gets instant access. You can teach something you're an expert in, or you can become an expert on a topic and then teach what you learned. This is an ideal online business side hustle.
  • White Label Products: Amazon-branded products are a perfect example. Amazon doesn't make most of them; they just put their brand on products made by other companies. You can do the same thing, using drop shipping so you never have to handle inventory or shipping yourself.
  • Embedded Offers: This is when a product or service is offered within another product you've already sold. I partnered with a company that helps my students set up LLCs. I placed an offer for their service inside my online course. For every person who uses their services, I get a commission. That one partnership has generated a five-figure passive income stream for me every single week for years.

Escaping the Traps on Your Path

Once you’ve committed to this path, you have to be aware of the "warnings"—the common pitfalls that derail most people.

  1. The Planning Warning: People use endless preparation as an excuse to avoid the fear of failure. I spent a decade "learning" how to make money online without ever making a dime because I was stuck planning. The cure is simple: set a hard deadline and execute.
  2. The "Squirrel" Warning: This is the constant distraction of new, shiny opportunities. You never give one idea enough time to succeed. The cure is to decide on one path and commit to it ruthlessly until you achieve a specific, predetermined goal.
  3. The Pinching Pennies Warning: A scarcity mindset focuses on saving, while a wealth mindset focuses on creating. Instead of asking how to save a few dollars on gas, ask how you can make your next million. The questions you ask shape your reality.
  4. The "Not Enough Time" Warning: No one has time; you make time. I once did an audit of my time and cut out everything that wasn't essential—social media, TV, even eating out. I unplugged my TV and put it in the attic until I made my first million. It was extreme, but it worked.
  5. The Side Hustle Warning: A side hustle business that relies on you trading more time for more money is just a second job. It's not scalable, and it makes the platform owners rich, not you. A side hustle should be a temporary bridge to building a side business to earn money through passive income, not the final destination. A true side hustle turned full time success story is one where your income is detached from your time.

The goal isn't just to make more cash; it's to build cash flow. It's not about working harder; it's about working less. Ditch the gig mentality and start building a real, passive business that can set you free for life.

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