It’s a story we’ve all been sold. From magazines and TV to the highlight reels on social media, we’re constantly fed the idea that success is something that just —a sudden, overnight event that arrives with minimal effort or resistance. This myth is everywhere, shaping how we think about our own ambitions.
Every single day, you arrive at a crossroads. It’s not a dramatic intersection with flashing lights, but a quiet, subtle choice point you might miss if you’re not paying attention. Yet, what you decide right there profoundly shapes the satisfaction and happiness you find in life. It’s the difference between thriving and just getting by.
Ever watch someone truly gifted at their craft and think, “They were just born with it”? Whether it’s seeing Warren Buffett explain the market, Eric Clapton play a guitar solo, or Simone Biles perform a flawless routine, the gap between their ability and ours can feel impossibly wide. It’s easy to convince ourselves they have some secret ingredient, some innate talent that we simply don’t.